A reintroduction toot Show more
I'm Mauve, a 37yo trans man from the North of England. I'm gay as in homosexual, I'm poly, and I live with my long-suffering long-term partner.
My main interests are: old gay novels, gay history, Sengoku & Bakufu Japan, colouring books, indie perfumes, kpop, and 80s/90s goth 🦇
What I do and don't mean by "boy" (kink, sex mention) Show more
When I talk about gay kink and sex, I usually refer to subs and bottoms as "boys". I mean this in the D/s sense - I'm referring to adults aged 18+ who take the submissive "boy" role in sex and kink.
I know 99% of you know this, of course, but I thought it was worth stating explicitly for absolute clarity.
food, diet talk, kink, me having a whinge Show more
And bitching about other people's food choices seems as sensible as critiquing their kinks; "Oh my god, can you believe Keith eats a Pot Noodle for lunch every day?" sounds like prudery to me, along the lines of "Oh my god, Keith does X with his boyfriend!! 🤢"
I think part of my bafflement about this is that food seems almost as personal as sex to me, so declaring in the office that you've been "good" or "bad" in terms of your diet sounds a bit like randomly telling your colleagues that you've been doing really well with your "no masturbation challenge" 😬
Cranky Old Sodomite, Noted Homosexual, and Unseelie Faerie Quean
37 | UK | he/him
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